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Published cover of I Missed Me Too by Jules Markley: a woman with a glass of wine overlooking the coast at sunset.

Out now · Jules Markley’s debut novel

I Missed Me Too

Same woman. New chapter.

Love, friendship, desire—and the moment you realize loving someone shouldn’t mean losing yourself.

The Bigger Life Series · Book One
Launch day · October 20, 2026

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Unfiltered with Jules is a podcast and editorial home for honest talk about relationships, dating, sex, friendship, and the stuff people are usually too embarrassed to say out loud.

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Relationship takes, listener drama, behind-the-scenes chaos & everything I couldn't stop thinking about this week.

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Ten scenarios. Three verdicts. Where does your relationship radar land?

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Dating, relationships, sex, breakups, confidence and the shit you probably aren’t asking in the group chat.

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15 years behind the bar taught Jules more about relationships than any dating app ever could.

After a decade and a half of pouring drinks and listening — to breakups, bad decisions, first dates, and everything in between — Jules started Unfiltered in 2024 to keep those conversations going, minus the bar.

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FOR THE GUYS

A question men ask

“My wife and I still have sex, but I’m always the one who initiates. Why does that bother me so much?”

Jules’s answer: Because this might have a lot less to do with how often you’re having sex and a lot more to do with whether you feel wanted…

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Your group chat has questions. So do we.

Mixed signals, hard conversations, boundaries, and finding your way back to yourself. Start with the Big Sister edit, or bring Jules the message you can’t stop rereading.

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Pleasure. Curiosity. Zero judgment.

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The Nightstand / The Unfiltered edit

A few things worth
making room for.

A considered little corner for finds from the show, the Toy Box, and the conversations that follow.

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The Love Lounge

Where the real ones go after the episode ends.

The Love Lounge is our community home on Discord — from The Group Chat and Love, Dating & Chaos to Big Sister advice, text decoding, and conversations after the podcast.

Guided onboarding helps you choose your conversations, including a private, opt-in Between the Sheets area for adults 18 and over.

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